tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post6592725009780120027..comments2011-07-07T05:36:28.339-07:00Comments on Kristine's Story: I hoped this wouldn't happen... I'm a kid hater.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06679832505983089584noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-24442743040164845992010-08-14T20:23:58.482-07:002010-08-14T20:23:58.482-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.*Maybe* Baby ♥ Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09383459784482599843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-38046565902199187892010-08-09T07:50:25.513-07:002010-08-09T07:50:25.513-07:00Kristine,
I'm so sorry that you are feeling t...Kristine,<br /><br />I'm so sorry that you are feeling this way. ((hug)) I can't imagine what it must feel like. <br /><br />I'm so sorry that I didn't get to meet you and give you a big hug. <br /><br />XO<br /><br />AnnieAnnie @ PhD in Parentinghttp://phdinparenting.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-29866899995753339462010-08-08T19:51:57.474-07:002010-08-08T19:51:57.474-07:00I have felt the same since my most recent miscarri...I have felt the same since my most recent miscarriage. I know your grief is very much different, but I understand. I have a hard time seeing pregnant women. <br /><br />Sending you love, hugs and prayers!Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16598379132557699798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-24668657498577669522010-08-08T18:22:30.854-07:002010-08-08T18:22:30.854-07:00my heart aches for you and I wish I could find the...my heart aches for you and I wish I could find the magic words to make your ache go away. I can't begin to understand your feelings but I do know I admire your courage and I appreciate your honesty! I hope brighter days are ahead for you . Take care my friend.luvssnonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-14092228892545784002010-08-08T18:18:55.240-07:002010-08-08T18:18:55.240-07:00I think this might be part of the grieving process...I think this might be part of the grieving process; I lost my<br />dad a few months ago unexpectedly, and it hurts rinses little girls with their daddies. Sometime I just cry and cry when I witness a duo holding hands. I know it's a different ache and loss for you, sweet friend, but I think grieving in general shares a lot of commonality. All this to say, I sort of understand along the lines of what you are feeling when you see those little ones. It's a reminder of your loss. And all that to say I, too, hope it passes for you and for me.Hyacynthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08838590548747956315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-73580205610404094652010-08-08T16:44:25.806-07:002010-08-08T16:44:25.806-07:00I know it is not close to comparable, but I most d...I know it is not close to comparable, but I most definitely felt this way when I had my miscarriage. I STILL feel this way a little when I see twins (since Austin was a twin). It won't ever go away I suppose, but it gets better. At least in the capacity that I experienced it. <br />No one (that is in their right mind) would ever expect you NOT to feel this way, and I can't believe it has taken this long for you to feel it. You're such a great person and it's absolutely totally understandable for you to have a hard time being around children, little girls, babies... <br />And I for one, will not be upset if you need to take a baby break. I think it would help. We're always here for you and we love you :)Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00477737239024999148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-10792956869865863192010-08-08T13:16:09.436-07:002010-08-08T13:16:09.436-07:00While I can not imagine the depth of you and your ...While I can not imagine the depth of you and your husband's heartache... after reading your post I don't think that you hate kids. <br /><br />I think that your heart hurts and that you can't help but wonder what if and yearn for the things that you dreamed of...<br /><br />I do know that loss of loved one hits you deep and hard--and there will always be things that trigger those feelings. With the support and love of those around you-it will get little easier in time. I experienced a traumatic loss in my family several years ago, and the help of a grief counselor and support group helped me immensely. <br /><br />Sending thoughts of healing and peace your way...Mariposahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16699735909944054333noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-59368734074338282652010-08-08T12:33:49.661-07:002010-08-08T12:33:49.661-07:00I know what you mean. I don't think you hate k...I know what you mean. I don't think you hate kids, babies. You hate that its not YOURS. I'm the same way. And I think in the beginning, we are so in shock with our situation that it doesn't compute yet- I even held a baby of a friend of mine when I was still in the hospital after my c-section! (I also held that same baby after Valentina's funeral- making every single person in the room start crying, oy.) I find it MUCH harder to see babies now, almost 15 weeks post, than I did in the beginning. :( <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232242367190783751.post-65008604307259216322010-08-08T12:22:04.413-07:002010-08-08T12:22:04.413-07:00I'm so sorry for your pain.
Praying for heali...I'm so sorry for your pain.<br /><br />Praying for healing and peace.<br />xoxoNikki Harmonhttp://twitter.com/Ni_doubleK_inoreply@blogger.com